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Chapter 6
His Prostate and Me

man, and regardless of his predicament, I felt that together we could find a way to change his circumstances.

Dick and his late wife Charlotte had tried most of the available methods to help with his impotence problem except for the non-prescription pills. Although these pills were heavily advertised, he looked on them as what we used to call "patent medicines." He told me, "I didn't try them, but I was tempted, because they had names like: Erogenex, Intimex, Testerex, Maximus and Top Gun!"

He continued our conversation by explaining that during his six-month check-up visit with the urologist following surgery, he told the doctor that he was still impotent. The doctor tried to be encouraging and said that sometimes it takes a year or more for a man to regain spontaneous potency after radical surgery. In the meantime, he suggested that Dick try a vacuum tube device, as it was the easiest, non-invasive, non-surgical procedure to achieve an erection.

Dick and Medicare spent $400 for the battery-powered apparatus, which Bill Martin aptly described in his book, My Prostate and Me, as a device that looks somewhat like a salad shooter. The principle of the device is to use a vacuum tube and pump to draw blood into the penis and retain the blood with a rubber band or constricting ring placed at the base of the penis. Then the vacuum tube is removed and the banded erection remains.

Dick tried it out in private and was disappointed with the results. The bottom line is that it he found the appliance awkward to use and quite painful when he snapped the rubber bands into place. Ouch! Sadly, he returned the device to its fancy bag and placed it on the top shelf of his closet.

Some men and women are very satisfied with the vacuum device. They are able to work through the strange, awkward stage and become proficient with it. Because of the band and the constriction, however, it is very important to make sure that the man consults with his doctor before using the appliance, principally if he has a physical ailment, such as a clotting problem.

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