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by William Martin

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I would have preferred to have been waked up, wheeled down the hall/ and operated on, with minimal time for reflection, but it wasn't my call. Patricia came to my room and we read the paper and talked a bit, but I don't remember any heavy- duty, last-minute expressions of fear or anxiety. This was what we had chosen and we were ready to get on with it. The operation in front of mine took about an hour longer than expected but, soon enough, they came to get me. Patricia and I kissed, with a recognition that this was momentous, but also with the full expectation that we would be seeing each other again in just a few hours.

I had requested that Dr. Alex Rosas serve as anesthesiologist on the surgery and was pleased when Dr. Scardino pronounced that an excellent choice. Dr. Rosas is married to Patricia's gynecologist and has an excellent reputation. In addition, we had met socially and had learned that he and his wife enjoy bicycling in the Wimberley area, so I figured we would get to know both of them better in the future. If I have to surrender control of my body to someone else, I prefer it be someone I know and like.

The first order of business after we got to the preparation room was to place the epidural catheter in my back. With the aid of a shot of xylocaine, it was a painless procedure and I was

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