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Chapter 6
His Prostate and Me

recover fully. The important thing is that, after waiting the mandatory total of five weeks before using the new implant, the device worked perfectly.

"Although I thought it would be difficult to locate the pump in my scrotum, it was easy. After approximately 30 pump strokes and a few minutes of time, I had an erection. It was simple to use, involved no pain, and took little time to activate. Most importantly, it functioned exactly like the natural erections that I had enjoyed in years past. What more can I say!"

My account of his surgery and recovery differs somewhat.

Although most men have an easy time with this particular surgery, Dick did not. He was in great pain in the hospital and despite my admonition to remain there, he insisted that was feeling much improved and checked out of the hospital far too soon. I do not blame Dr. Fishman, because Dick answered all of his "How are you feeling?" with the "I'm fine!" gusto of a man ready to get out of the hospital as fast as possible.

This happens frequently with patients of both genders but especially with males. Also, what I call the "98.6 factor" came into play during his interchanges with the doctor. As soon as people are in the presence of a doctor, they feel better and their temperature drops. How many times have mothers rushed their crying baby to the doctor's office with a temperature of 104. Then when the doctor walks in the examining room with the baby, the temperature slides down the thermometer from 104 to a normal 98.6.

Dick's situation was similar. He was very ill, weak and in pain. As soon as Dr. Fishman walked in the room, Dick felt a bit better and told Dr. Fishman that he was doing well and could go home. Having taken care of so many sick people and having been in the same situation myself, I have seen and experienced this behavior often. Although it feels emotionally better to hold back complaints, it does not help the doctor diagnosis your problem. Since Dick was more interested in maintaining his status as a non-complainer rather than being

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