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Looking Back
A New Definition of Intimacy
Keith, on intimacy . . .
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Here's my opinion. First, I think that a couple in this situa-
tion, or any couple really, who is dealing with sexual dysfunction,
should consider getting professional counseling. The issue of sexual dysfunction is complex, and, for me anyway, was an area where
I really needed professional guidance.
Second, I would encourage couples in this situation to try to
make safe places for themselves. I would encourage them to share
their intimate thoughts and feelings on the subject with each other.
Let your partner hear your fears, and understand your sense of feel-
ing vulnerable.
When a safe place has been made, I would then encourage
couples to begin to share their bodies again, in whatever way they
elect to do so.
Next to my recovery from cancer, I've found that reestab-
lishing physical intimacy with Gin has been the greatest gift I've
ever received. I love sharing my life with her again - body and soul
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