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Looking Back
What We've Learned About Being Lovers
Keith, on experimentation . . .
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injections, but because I've learned how to be a more considerate and engaging lover.
Our sex now, while it has lost its spontaneity, has gained
intensity. We have a sort of "meeting of the minds" as to when
we're going to make love, and we block off time for it to happen.
Days beforehand, we start hinting at what we have in mind. So
the planning process itself actually intensifies our lovemaking.
Then there is the act itself. Because I no longer have to
worry about "the puppy going down," I can concentrate on Gin
more than I used to. And afterward I can extend the process to
seconds, thirds and fourths for her - giving me the satisfaction of
providing a level of sexual pleasure I didn't know I was capable
of.
If I lost the ability to engage in intercourse, I know I
could still be a great lover to Gin. I'd still be compassionate, caring, understanding, and physically giving in any way I could to
make her feel good.
I've learned that there's no greater satisfaction in my life
than for me to remain close and intimate with my wife.
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