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Chapter 6
His Prostate and Me

life taking care of the bottom half of bodies, humans and otherwise?"

Dick's post surgical troubles served to remind me of how important it is to check everything from medications to other bothersome requirements, such as making sure an enema is given before surgery. The fact that Dick did not have an enema prior to the surgery resulted in an episode the next day that caused him excruciating pain for more than an hour.

I think it is also vital to be present at the hospital during a patient's stay to help facilitate their recovery. Nowadays with the problem of understaffing in some hospitals, it is prudent to stay in the room with the patient at least until he is comfortable and mobile. Recently, a friend of ours took a nasty fall in his hospital room. Disoriented from his pain medicine, he was not clear about his whereabouts when he awakened. He headed for the restroom not realizing he was hooked up to an IV and fell on the way. After inadvertently tearing out the needles, he called for help but no one heard him and he was not able to come to his feet. He remained on the floor for a long time. Having someone else in the room helps prevent such scenarios and patients can go home in one piece.

Dick was happy to be home even if he had suffered his setback. After six weeks, Dr. Fishman gave him permission to practice operating his new implant. He was thrilled with his amazing apparatus and the ease with which it could be operated. Now all he needed was the right wife. Since I was the going candidate, I became the Mrs. Because of the timing of the surgery and his marriage proposal, I was never sure if it was love or research that precipitated our union.

I must admit that I was a bit overwhelmed by his enthusiasm for his new technological wonder. That is not to say that I was not enjoying our intimacy, but I wanted Dick to understand that as a menopausal female, my hormone level was not the same as when I was twenty. And, frankly, Dick had such a new lease on life that I could not keep up with this man who was acting like the Titan of Testosterone.

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